FAMILY

Obedient to parents is obligatory for a woman. However, parents liability is limited to either not married. When you have a family, a wife is required to obey the husband prefers. During obedience to the law was still in the corridor and did not violate the religious orders. Therefore, he added, parents are not allowed to intervene in the domestic life of her daughter. Including giving him any command. When that happens, a big mistake. After the marriage the moment, his son has entered a new phase, no longer under the responsibility of the parents, but to his being the husband's responsibility. Allah Almighty says, "The men are the leaders of women, because Allah has preferred some of them (men) on partly the other (women). (Surat an-Nisa '[4]: 34).
But the husband should give change to his wife to keep silaturrahim with her parents and family.In my opinion after doing her duty properly, the wife may also get their rights, for example to visit her family.

One time, in a narration of Anas bin Malik RA Hadith narrated-most experts called weak-sanad, companions when traveling for jihad, he asked his wife not to leave the house until he came home from the holy mission. At the same time, your father's wife was ill. Because had promised obedience to the command of the husband, the wife did not dare to see her father.

Feel they have a moral burden to his parents, he sent a man to ask the Messenger. He replied, "Obey your husband." Until the father met his end, and was buried, he had not dared to visit. For the second time, he was asked about his condition to the Prophet SAW. The same answer he got from the Prophet, "Obey your husband." After how long, the Prophet sent messengers to tell his wife so that Allah has forgiven the sins of his father due to his zeal for the husband.
Responsibility of parents is before the daughter married.And after that is responsibility her husband.But her husband also must give the wife change to visit her family after the wife do her obligation well.